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Function: _error_handler
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Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
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Function: require_once
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Filename: libraries/Article_lib.php
Line Number: 621
Backtrace:
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/libraries/Article_lib.php
Line: 621
Function: _error_handler
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/controllers/Read.php
Line: 65
Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
Line: 327
Function: require_once
Severity: Notice
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Line: 622
Function: _error_handler
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/controllers/Read.php
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Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
Line: 327
Function: require_once
Severity: Notice
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Filename: libraries/Article_lib.php
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Line: 623
Function: _error_handler
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/controllers/Read.php
Line: 65
Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
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Function: require_once
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Message: Creating default object from empty value
Filename: libraries/Article_lib.php
Line Number: 623
Backtrace:
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/libraries/Article_lib.php
Line: 623
Function: _error_handler
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/controllers/Read.php
Line: 65
Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
Line: 327
Function: require_once
Severity: Notice
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Filename: libraries/Article_lib.php
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Backtrace:
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/libraries/Article_lib.php
Line: 635
Function: _error_handler
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/application/controllers/Read.php
Line: 65
Function: xplore
File: /var/www/public_html/grid-cebang/index.php
Line: 327
Function: require_once
4. “Kamu harus lebih tenang.”
Ketika kita lagi ada masalah, kata-kata seperti ini pasti akan sering muncul.
Memang sih, di satu sisi kalimat ini bisa berarti hal yang baik karena pacar jadi menenangkan hati kita.
Meyakinkan kita bahwa semua hal akan kembali baik-baik saja.
Tapi di sisi lain, menurut Joshua Klapow, PhD, seorang psikolog klinis, kalimat ini bisa berarti buruk karena pacar secara enggak langsung mengabaikan perasaan yang sedang kita rasakan saat itu.
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5. “Aku khawatir kalau kamu enggak ngasih kabar.”
Ucapan seperti ini memang terdengar manis, apalagi kalau pacar pengin tahu terus sama keadaan kita.
Tapiii, kita juga harus bisa membedakan kapan kata-kata ini terdengar sebagai ucapan penuh perhatian, kapan jadi terkesan seperti ucapan yang bersifat mengontrol.
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